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Sunday 22 January 2017

Strengths and Challenges in Communicating

Q: Describe your strengths in communication and the challenges you have when communicating with others. In view of this, state two objectives you will set for yourself to achieve by the end of this course.

A: Communication is a way of exchanging information via a medium which can be verbal or non-verbal. People communicate to understand one another. However, there are barriers that may affect our interpretation of the information received and result in a misunderstanding.

I feel that a strength I have in communication would be my ability to receive information. During interpersonal communication and in small groups, I am able to give my full attention to the person relaying their message. For example, I will maintain eye contact with the speaker. I would usually nod or hum to indicate that I am listening attentively to the speaker. Another strength I have would be my ability to relay non-verbal messages, such as texting and writing e-mails. I feel that I have the ability to write clear and precise sentences that allows the receiver to understand my message. When writing text messages, I would send multiple messages instead of a long paragraph to ensure that the message I am sending over is easier to read. 

Some challenges I face when communicating with others would be expressing my thoughts verbally. Sometimes, I speak too fast, stutter, and when I am tired, I slur my words. Many times people have misunderstood my messages because of my pronunciation. Sometimes I avoid speaking because I worry that I will be misunderstood again and embarrass myself. Another challenge I face would be my ability of giving feedback. I feel that I do not give good enough feedback to people when they ask for it.

What I would like to achieve by the end of this course, firstly, would be to improve my ability of giving feedback. I would like to be of help to others when they have approached me for my opinion. Secondly, I want to improve my speech. I want to speak clearer and have a better stage presence so that I will not be misunderstood often, and be confident enough to start conversations.


Note: Underlined sentences were recently added on 5/2/17

Monday 16 January 2017

Setting my own objectives

How important is it for me to develop effective communication skills?
What will I do in this course to help myself develop as an effective interpersonal communicator?

It is important for me to develop effective communication skills. I want to learn to better understand other people, and communicate my thoughts and ideas accurately and clearly. In my opinion, developing effective communication skills allows people to build and maintain relationships where we can respect and trust one another. Not only do I want to be able to share my ideas, I want to be able to listen and understand the ideas and thoughts of others. To help myself develop as an effective interpersonal communicator, I will participate in discussions and learn to listen actively to others. I will apply the things I will learn in this course. When a person talks, I will respect him/ her by listening attentively and do my best to provide constructive feedback.